Guess what, that doesn't make you attractive. Worry not, I'm here to teach you what does make man attractive to women.
Through-out the pickup community (and the whole human history) people have struggled to find out exactly what is it that gets women attracted to certain guys. Looks indeed was a part of it - but men knew that there was something beyond that. So for our ease of use and reference I made this post in which I'll collect every single attractive quality that I find and I'll update it whenever I discover new ones.
In later posts, I'll teach you on how to demonstrate and sub-communicate these qualities.
So here we go:
- Preselection - This one comes up again and again and again. Women want men the other women want. It's everywhere, it's nature. And it's a fucking rich get richer scheme, but that's how it works.
- Leader of men - As mystery always says, lead the men and the women will follow. An alpha male is a leader, no matter how you look at it - when people follow your lead you have power.
- Protector of loved ones - Women want to feel safe, guarded and protected - important. And those three were mystery's favorite qualities to demonstrate, Onwards!
- Sense of humor - You hear that one all the time. "Why are you dating this guy?" "Oh, he makes me laugh" - she's telling the truth (part of it anyways). Sense of humor is important, and we'll discuss how to work on it.
- Social Intelligence - Social savvy people are attractive people. We want to be around them, they always know what's the right thing to do. Just being out there is going to increase your social intelligence, so be out there.
- Good looks - Very self explanatory. If you look like Brad Pitt, that's attractive.
- Groomed - Being well groomed is often neglected. For some reason people think that good looking people are this way without doing anything. WRONG. Start taking care of yourself, no excuses.
- Rich - You don't have to actually be rich, just appear to come for a place of abundance.
3 comments:
Thanks Tom!
I think that those points you write is not new to any of us.
We all know those things, but we like to ignor them. when you dont have a traget, you never fail.
Lol, that sounds like smart chinese sentence. :D
reading your blog will make people pay attantion to those issues, and not to ignor them.
Even if it looks useless, It is usefull to those who read it.
Yossi,
I know most people are aware of those, even if they choose to ignore them.
Beyond actually opening people's eyes to them, I hope I can also teach how to communicate them.
Yes, and this is what I'm waiting for. I think It's going to be very intresting.
^_~
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