Attractive Qualities List

Ok guys, congratulation - you can talk to people now!
Guess what, that doesn't make you attractive. Worry not, I'm here to teach you what does make man attractive to women.
Through-out the pickup community (and the whole human history) people have struggled to find out exactly what is it that gets women attracted to certain guys. Looks indeed was a part of it - but men knew that there was something beyond that. So for our ease of use and reference I made this post in which I'll collect every single attractive quality that I find and I'll update it whenever I discover new ones.
In later posts, I'll teach you on how to demonstrate and sub-communicate these qualities.
So here we go:

1. Preselection - This one comes up again and again and again. Women want men the other women want. It's everywhere, it's nature. And it's a fucking rich get richer scheme, but that's how it works.
2. Leader of men - As mystery always says, lead the men and the women will follow. An alpha male is a leader, no matter how you look at it - when people follow your lead you have power.
3. Protector of loved ones - Women want to feel safe, guarded and protected - important. And those three were mystery's favorite qualities to demonstrate, Onwards!
4. Sense of humor - You hear that one all the time. "Why are you dating this guy?" "Oh, he makes me laugh" - she's telling the truth (part of it anyways). Sense of humor is important, and we'll discuss how to work on it.
5. Social Intelligence - Social savvy people are attractive people. We want to be around them, they always know what's the right thing to do. Just being out there is going to increase your social intelligence, so be out there.
6. Good looks - Very self explanatory. If you look like Brad Pitt, that's attractive.
7. Groomed - Being well groomed is often neglected. For some reason people think that good looking people are this way without doing anything. WRONG. Start taking care of yourself, no excuses.
8. Rich - You don't have to actually be rich, just appear to come for a place of abundance.
   

Get rid of social anxiety!

While surfing in some forum where I give some tips from time to time I realized that a (VERY) large portion of the men there were suffering from some type of social anxiety - so I thought, "hey, I can help!".

So here is a short guide to rocket your social skills through the roof while blowing social anxiety out of the water!

Step no. 1: Set Goals -
This is extremely important, so I'll say it again; SET GOALS!
You are probably already aware of the fact that setting goals is important, but I bet you don't do that very often - if at all.
Think of the wildest (legal!) thing you can imagine someone doing in a social situation. Anything, in any situation, it does not matter what it is as long as it is something you would really like to be able to do but think you could never do it because of... Whatever.
That's your ultimate goal. Write it down!

Step no. 2: A journey of a thousand miles... -
You probably heard that a journey of a thousand miles always starts with the first step, and nothing could be truer with beating our problem. To banish it from our life once and for all, we need to take a series of steps, slowly moving forward.
So on step 2 I want you to give yourself a list of milestones that you need to take to get to your goal. Follow the golden rule - the smaller the steps the better if you're making a progress that matters. Now what I mean by that is that you need to make your steps as small a possible, because it's easier to do them and you'll notice your progress which will give you a wonderful boost, won't it? However, make your steps count. Make them something that moves you forward.
Some steps you might want to include:
Maintaining eye contact.
Asking someone off the street something.
Starting a conversation with a stranger.
Make a girl you don't know laugh right after you approach her.
Etc.
Include whatever you need.

Step no. 3: Take Action -
Final step! Are you excited yet?
Now, that fact that you read so far (even if you've done nothing yet) means that you can get rid of social anxiety very quickly!
So what the final step? TAKE ACTION!
Start with your first step of your list of milestones, and do something about it. It's that easy.
Let assume you chose "Maintaining eye contact" as a milestone you now want to achieve.
Now go out somewhere - the mall, the street, somewhere with people - and just take let's say a 30 minute walk while you maintain a friendly eye contact with people walking by. Smile if you can.
Keep doing that (daily if you can) until you feel good with that and can say that it's no longer a problem.

Secret step no. 3.5: Celebrate -
Yes! You moved one step on your journey? Give yourself a huge pat on the back,and do something to symbolize your success. Have yourself look forward to completing each step for this celebration, it'll give you a great boost - trust me.

Repeat steps 3-3.5 until you get your goal.

Now, in-case you haven't noticed yet this guide is actually the practical application of what I taught you on the last post. You can repeat that with ANY Ultimate Goal you have.

To your eternal success,
Tom C.

P.S.
This guide was actually written a long time ago and which I speared around the Internet a bit to help guys. Don't be alarmed if you already read it before.

Taking it one step at a time

It's a lazy Saturday noon here now, and I thought it's time to start doing some real work now.
On the road to achieving anything in life, you set goals. Yes, even if you are not actually aware they exist. Goals can almost always be divided into two types - Ultimate Goals and Milestone Goals. In our field of interest, Ultimate Goals can be things like "Getting an amazing girlfriend", "Getting same night lays whenever I want" or "Having a threesome with two Hollywood movie stars" - they are what you ultimately want to get. Milestone Goals are smaller goals you need to fulfill to accomplish your Ultimate Goals - from the simplest "Holding eye contact" to "Consistently start and maintain a conversation" to "Getting phone numbers that don't flake" to "Tell a 50 minute story that really says nothing and have the whole group totally captivated" to whatever else you want... Milestone Goals are also handling your sticking points when you encounter them, for example if you seem to open a conversation great but it always seem to go stale afterwards your next Milestone Goal is to handle it.

So now think of some of the things you ultimately want to achieve. If you have just one goal, that's perfectly fine.
WRITE IT DOWN.
Make a commitment to yourself that you're going to do WHATEVER IT TAKES to reach that.

After you write it down, think of what you need to do in order to get there. Remember the small things, and remember the small things, and remember that unless you decide to show it, this list is completely private, so feel free to write down even the more embarrassing stuff.
Set being able to do those things as your Milestone Goals, and order them by both a logical order of time (starting a conversation before having threesomes) and by order of difficulty (getting a phone # in 20 minutes is easier then getting a make-out in 20 minutes).

Now your have a practice plan. Keep it safe, and push your limits as far as it takes to accomplish them.

Until we meet again,
Tom C.

So what am I gonna teach you?

A funny thing happened to me the other day.
I showed the new blog to a friend of mine, who is also in the PU scene and knows that I was planning "The Waler Method" a long time ago, which then asked me a question about something that I didn't realize was missing until just then - what the hell am I going to teach you?!
Well, it was hard not to just smile and say "Everything".

What do you mean by everything?

Let me explain. One of the most difficult and challenging forms of human interactions is the art of pickup. Pickup being that way (and me being a guy that loves sex) the main focus of the blog will revolve around the subject of pickup, which will develop ALL of your social skills. Now, people in the seduction scene tend to complicate things too much, in my opinion, by breaking down things that I believe should be seen as a whole. Separating the so-called "close" from the rest of the interaction? What kind of stupid thing is that? You can take her phone number right in the middle of the conversation, you don't need to "close" with it, do you?
Plus there is this weird separation for teaching about "Inner Game" and "Outer game" separately. They complete each-other! Your Outer Game improves you Inner Game, and vice-versa.
So, I have created (and still working on) a method - or maybe more of a system - the works on every single part of your game, and is totally and completely adaptable to any style. If you are the comfortable guy that likes to sit one on one with the girl, talking about deep and meaningful things - I have lots of rapport and covert hypnosis for you! If you are more of the out-going, party and make them laugh their ass off - I'm here for you! No matter what's your thing, it'll work for you.
It is also fully adaptable to the level of dedication you might have. There will be extremely short, off-the-bat tricks and tips you can use immediately. There will be skills that will need your devotion. There also will be a vast theory for those that might be interested.

That's what I mean by everything.

And soon, that power will be yours.

Tom C. (AKA Waler)

The day I met the Devil

The Human Herd

Most people today are just like sheep, except they're talking ones. Being the herd they are, they do what society tell them to do, but, say, think and act. They blindly follow the handful of people that know how to lead them.
These handful of people seems to know things no other human does, they always seem to be able to do or say the right thing to close a deal, get the girl or enthuse people to vote.

Your Meeting With the Devil

Imagine that one day you met the Devil himself, all red and fiery right there in-front of you. He looked at you right in the eyes, smiled and made you an offer; He is going to give you superpowers. He'll give you the ability of Mind-Control, so you'll become the leader of the sheep herd. He'll give you Clairvoyance, so you be able to know a person better right when you see them better then their friends do. He'll offer you that and much more. However, there is a catch - and the catch is the you won't be granted with them in their full intensity right away. The process in which you gain them is a painful constant uphill battle which in you will break your entire reality and reconstruct it, shattering your comfort zone and build a new you.

The Devil made this deal with me, and now I offer it to you. I offer you years worth of my knowledge in areas such as psychology, hypnosis, seduction, social dynamics and much more. I'm talking about real world powers to revolutionize every area of your life - not just things that work in "thoery".

This is my offer. Will you take it?